I decided if they dont put effort, I dont put effort. Friendship is a two way street and you seem to be a good person and I am sure you will find people who qualify as a true friend here.
Yeah, I've learned not to force something. Let it go, scratch it up to experience, and then by making room in your life by letting it go, new people will enter--supportive, positive and loyal friends!
My IA is feeling dehydrated again. What's up with it? I don't think I'm eating too much salt and I'm drinking two liters of water a day.

The other IA is dinner last night. I love my MIL and she means well, but the chili was horrible. All gross kidney beans, giant hard bits of corn and enough chili powder to dissolve anyone's intestines. Even hubby was up in the middle of the night with a sore tummy and he likes it hot. I only took one tiny bite and it nearly burned my lips off my face. I've been telling MIL for three years now I *do not* like things very hot. Finally after last night she heard what I've been saying. (We had to find something else for me to eat) My lips are still sore today.
