My wedding is in exactly 5 weeks, and so far, only about half of the invitees have bothered to send back the (pre-addressed, pre-stamped) reply card. The deadline is this coming Wednesday.
I thought maybe I'd get a lot of them this past week, but only one more showed up.
I get that it's a busy time of the year and all, and if a lot of people can't make it, or just don't feel like coming, that's fine. But it really annoys me that *my own family* (cos it's pretty much all relatives) can't even be bothered to write a zero on the card and drop it in a mailbox.
Grr.