Coping with the LDR

Well,  I just got off the fone with Dave and we have decided its best if we stop talking to eachother. He's not going to change his mind and no matter what or how i say things, I cant get him to change his mind either.
I have apologised over and over again for *bleep*ing up (those i have spoken to outside the room know how i *bleep*ed up) and destroying all we had together and told him if he just gives me the chance i can prove to him that we would be good again and i will commit 110% to only him.
He said he loves to hear my voice everyday and to know that things here are ok with me and the kids, but he cannot commit again.
So thats it.
No more fone calls. This is going to be 1 hell of a fight to not pick up the fone anymore and hear his voice and wait for the words i want to hear. I know now its never gonna happen.

Now i just have to make myself believe what i dont want to and that it is over once and for all.

Yes!! Good for you, Jane- I made the decision to cut off all contact with my ex because it was just too painful, and I think I'm a lot better for it.

*hugs* Stay strong, girl.

Well, what can I say.

After long months of still talking to Dave and hearing that he wouldn't be coming back, I finally moved on.
When he realised that I was moving on, he declared his love for me and asked me to let him come home.

Of course, because i still love him to bits, i said YES !!!

So, we are now back together and have been since the middle of may and he will be coming over again on the 9th August and staying for the 3 months. He didnt want me to wait any longer than I had to so he bought the ticket as soon as he could after getting back together. Then, if all goes to plan, I will be returning with him to the states and marrying him just like we had planned before. Only this time, i will be coming back on my own to tie up all my loose ends here and allowing Dave time to find a Job and a House in WA and then me and the kids will be flying out to the States.
That is of course all the visa plans for going there go through ok.

So, there is an end to my rainbow and dreams do really come true.

That's really great for you, Jane!  Best of luck for the future.

Good for you Jane, glad to see things have turned out the way you hoped!