For some reason, automatic transmission has never become as widely accepted here as in the States, and a lot of British drivers seem to have an inherent dislike of it, even those who have never tried one.
Yes, I *really* don't understand this. I have driven (and owned) manual cars in the US, as well as automatic ones. Sometimes & under some driving conditions, I preferred the manual. Other times, the automatic. But here I just find with the narrow roads & all the fiddley bits of driving (as expected for the licence test) -- not having to drive a manual is one less thing to have to worry about especially when the car is all backa*sewards from what I'm accustomed to.
Steve and I had a number of disagreements over my desire to eventually get an automatic car. I don't think his current car is a good example of a manual, no -- it's just horrible to drive...the gears don't like to shift, it's a tiny car (I think even by UK standards) so I really feel cramped, etc. Even so, I think an automatic would be better at least until I'm used to driving here. Finally, it took me (subliminally?) getting him to see his
own awkwardness in driving with the manual...as well as our friends locally who pointed out how much safer the automatic can be in that you're more focused on the road & less about shifting the da*n car.
As for some of that riding the clutch business...when I learned to drive a manual in the US, the clutch was one of those things shown to me to be useful when driving in snowy, slick conditions (using clutch to slowly downshift, etc vs braking/skidding)...similarly, if needed - knowing how the clutch can assist (or hinder) you with climbing or descending sharp elevations. When we were driving through snowy conditions here around Christmastime & DH was nervous about it, how you can use the clutch to help you was like a totally foreign concept to him!