Victoria, thanks for your reply

He has actually been in touch with the American Embassy in London and after them sending him paperwork to fill in, we had a reply last week saying that they had received it all and he can expect to hear from the Social Security Disability within 12 to 18 months!!!!!!!!!
He is 48 and worked all his adult life with no claims on benefits before. I can't believe that he was told 12 to 18 months

We can just about get by with my wage and the little bit of savings we have left if we stick to a strong budget! He just feels so useless and helpless that he is unable to work or do anything about it.
We are both being very positive about it all and have decided that we are going to take one day at a time and enjoy life as much as we can!!! Its just this added worry of 'will he be granted' permanent residency or be told to go back to America because he has not contributed anything to this country?
Thanks for any information you or anybody else can give us.
Pauline.