No one is being mean to you. You wanted advice, you've gotten it. In one thread you said you had no job, in this thread you said you have one that pays 5.05 an hour. You WILL need a co-sponsor to prove you and your bf can live without public assistance because he's not allowed to work until AFTER you're married. You WILL need proof from the council that it's ok for your bf to live there because it's THEIR house, not yours. Based on what you've been told in this thread and elsewhere, I'd be surprised if your application was successful, simply because you don't have all the evidence you'll need.
Be nervous, that's fine. But don't get all pissy when people tell you what to do to make your application successful and it's not what you want to hear.