sorry. *UPDATED*

i didn't say i had a job that pays 5.05 i said that was what I'll have when the visa app form is put in t0 them

my mother is disabled and cant work but dad has agreed to co-sponser for me if i need it.

i will talk to the housing officer next week i know the guy so a letter wont be any trouble

I'm sorry if I'm uptight Ive been sick the last few days some bug or whatever

on the job front for my boyfriend he done loads of college gained alot in writing and art he done two years at trade school in commercial art he'd like to write for marvel comic books and is active in seeking employment with them so he can work from home if we where to prove he was seeking employment is that OK to do? because i know they ask about work from him and all.

i will agree ive been a b*tch the last couple of days and I'm sorry if i pissed people off your  help has been great thank you to all who has helped me...forgive me? I'm wiling to listen

thanks for your apology and good luck claire!

your welcme looks like i m going to need it

you know im writing all this down making a list and just ticking off what i need and all

good idea? bad idea?

Excellent idea! Lists really help when things get overwhelming and you can't think straight. 

yeah im all up at the moment about this

very confusing most of the time.

OH NO!

my boyfriend came to Scotland in 2003 but was refused entry because they htough he was going to say over his 85days and was send home and told to applie for the fiance visa

It would be helpful if you didn't erase your entire original post as people who are just reading the thread won't have any idea what you were after.

Again, your boyfriend will NOT be able to work until AFTER you are married, even if it's at home.  Be careful.

Why are you freaking out about him being sent home in 2003?  He's doing nothing wrong now by applying for a visa.  He will have to say he was denied entry on his application but that's not a big deal.

i freaked out cuz i forgot to add it in cuz its an inportant detail

i will sort out a new one explaining the old one

yeah i know he cant work till after the marriage and all i think he'll just write things to send in i guess.

i found this Q on a menbers site who posts here

Is your marriage dependent upon your relocating to the UK? <---how do you answer that? can it be answer? im confused 

i found this Q on a menbers site who posts here

Is your marriage dependent upon your relocating to the UK? <---how do you answer that? can it be answer? im confused 

I think the question means if he can't come to the UK to live, do you two still plan to get married. Ex. would you then explore moving to the US to marry him and live here. How do you answer that? Truthfully.

truefully if its refused we will look into me moving over there. so his answer would be no ?

i freaked out cuz i forgot to add it in cuz its an inportant detail

i will sort out a new one explaining the old one

yeah i know he cant work till after the marriage and all i think he'll just write things to send in i guess.

Sorry, but since you deleted your original post, I have no idea what your or his situation is, so excuse me if I've gotten the situation wrong. But if you are saying that he will write while in the UK to to try to earn money, he can't do that; that's working.

yeah he will after its legal to do so. but he cant write in the privacy of his own home?

He can write all he wants...he just can't sell anything.

He can, he just can't get paid for it.  Is he actually working for Marvel?  They might have some advice on this.