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« on: February 18, 2006, 01:28:36 PM »
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2006, 01:33:43 PM »
Tell the truth.  However, going to and fro all the time like that is bound to cause difficulties with immigration at the airports on both sides.  If you want to be together long term, get working on how you plan to do that - who is moving where and on what kind of visa.  Definitely DO NOT pretend she is still married to her ex, that could cause all kinds of problems if she ever applied for a fiance or marriage visa to come and live in the UK.

Best of luck to you, it's not easy.
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2006, 01:42:07 PM »
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #3 on: February 18, 2006, 01:46:59 PM »
Hope it all works out and she doesn't get too many hassles.  Just curious - what do you mean about being too honest to go for the fiance visa? Nothing dishonest about it at all as long as you are getting married.
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #4 on: February 18, 2006, 02:38:58 PM »
Hi Britwife,

I dont think we should apply for the fiance visa til my "ex" is 100% my "ex".  It is in the process... I am sure once it is complete the fiance visa is surely the next step.

Thank you so much for you comments... what an "adventure".

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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #5 on: February 18, 2006, 02:43:33 PM »
I am sure someone will correct me if I am wrong but you will have to show proof of going to school as well....

Any kind of visa's you apply for you will have to show ample proof of legibility of being able to have that type of visa

but good luck !
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #6 on: February 18, 2006, 02:58:39 PM »
What is with all the speech marks!? 



Modified to add:  What MeShell said is true.  Getting a student visa means your girlfriend will have to be accepted to a UK uni as a full time student and prove that she can finance her education without public funds.  It's a lengthy process (took me almost a year).
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #7 on: February 18, 2006, 03:04:09 PM »
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #8 on: February 18, 2006, 03:27:13 PM »
Thanks for all the comments.  I am already in the process for the schooling  with funding not being an issue.   

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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #9 on: February 18, 2006, 03:34:51 PM »
Quote from: sillysally on February 18, 2006, 02:38:58 PM
Hi Britwife,

I dont think we should apply for the fiance visa til my "ex" is 100% my "ex".  It is in the process... I am sure once it is complete the fiance visa is surely the next step.

Thank you so much for you comments... what an "adventure".

SS

Oh  I see.  Well good luck with everything, hope the student visa works out, keep us posted!
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #10 on: February 18, 2006, 06:25:07 PM »
Quote from: sillysally on February 18, 2006, 03:27:13 PM
Thanks for all the comments.  I am already in the process for the schooling  with funding not being an issue.   

 ;D

Wow.. being independently wealthy must be nice.  My MA cost me £8000 just in tuition.  Living expenses were another £15K.
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #11 on: February 18, 2006, 06:27:02 PM »
Kristi!!!  :o I thought I was cranky today!!!!  :o :o
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #12 on: February 18, 2006, 06:29:01 PM »
Sorry.. I'm really, really tired and taking aim at hapless victims.  Apologies for being cheeky.
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #13 on: February 18, 2006, 10:52:19 PM »
Be honest. If you start making stuff up, you're going to forget what lies you told to whom. I'm all in favour of the occasional white lie in everyday life, but in cases like this, it's simplest to tell the truth.
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Re: Is 'honesty' REALLY the best thing?
« Reply #14 on: February 19, 2006, 01:28:38 AM »
Quote from: UKmate on February 18, 2006, 01:28:36 PM
Trip #3 is planned for errrrr pretty soon (sorry for not being 'specific' but I am kinda 'paranoid' that BIG BROTHER may be reading our threads - lol, silly I know). Anyway, trip #3 - she is travelling alone (just for a long weekend!)

Honestly, if you are afraid of Big Brother on this board, you should be more afraid of the fact the government has proof that she has lied in the past.  Just playing devil's advocate, because I have no idea if they even look at that.  Good luck.
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