I left at 23; im 43 this year.
Running away from an overbearing family, and chasing after a guy brought me here.
Im not 'anti'- American... but i am not 'proud' to be American, and a lot of American things, ideas, attitudes, etc make me cringe.
I have lived here (and loved it) most of my adult life, and am now a British citizen.
America means nothing to me, other than being the place i grew up... a long, long time ago.
That's why i (jokingly) call myself a 'former American'.
Anyway... back to the original subject.... this questioning is making me feel weird!