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Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« on: May 08, 2006, 04:20:44 AM »
I'm planning to move to the UK post-graduation. But I have run into many folks from the UK that say it's not a good idea. That there are no jobs and the transition would be tedious; but that's all I get. They insist that the US is better, but I'm not getting any other info then that. I'm thinking twice about my plan. Any suggestions? :-\\\\


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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #1 on: May 08, 2006, 05:37:11 AM »
I'm planning to move to the UK post-graduation. But I have run into many folks from the UK that say it's not a good idea. That there are no jobs and the transition would be tedious; but that's all I get. They insist that the US is better, but I'm not getting any other info then that. I'm thinking twice about my plan. Any suggestions? :-\\\\

To be honest, living in the UK really does effect everyone differently.  I think it's going to be one of those things that you will have to decide for yourself.  I have been here nearly 3 years and I work in a field where I deal with the public on a day to day basis and so many of them ask me why on earth I moved here!  They always comment with how much better it is in the states or that they have some family member who moved to the states and wouldn't dare think of coming back.  I think this place is a wonderful place to spend some time and experience but I have come to realize that the things I value the most aren't the same as society in general here places them.  I have had my time here and am ready to go back.  There are a whole list of reasons why. But remember that is me and there are a ton of people on here who are completely happy living here and wouldn't dare think of going back!
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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #2 on: May 08, 2006, 05:52:05 AM »
Whispersarah is correct in that it's a very personal decision, and what's right for one person might not be right for another.  A lot of it depends on your flexibility/attitude towards change.  Be really honest with yourself.  If you find transitions unsettling, then moving is probably not for you.  If on the other hand you thrive on change, then it could be a great adventure.  But definitely something you should go into with your eyes wide open.  Have you ever spent any lengthy period of time in the UK?  I highly recommend visiting before making the decision to move.  Some people have a highly romanticized view of life in the UK, and it can be disappointing when reality doesn't match up to the fantasy.  And remember that visiting a new country and living there are two very different things.  Do you know what area of the UK you plan on moving to?  What immigration route are you planning on taking?  (BUNAC, HSMP, student visa, work permit, etc.)  There's a lot of advance planning to be done.  The folks here are very friendly and quick to offer advice/opinions, so feel free to ask.  Good luck with your plans!

BTW, I'm one of those who prefers the UK to the US.  You'll find the whole range here...some who desperately miss the US and can't wait to get back, some who love life the UK and don't ever want to leave, and a whole bunch that fall somewhere in-between...
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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #3 on: May 08, 2006, 07:47:45 AM »
I don't see any reason why you can't go to the UK, knowing you can always go back. Leaving the US doesn't have to be permanent, and I would encourage anyone to try having a 'foreign experience', however brief.

I love England and do want to live here permanently, but there are aspects of life--primarily the high cost of housing, the uncertainties of getting quality health care, etc--that give me pause and make me feel it would be 'best in the long run' to go back to the US. We are considering a move back to the US, but for now we are trying to give England a go. We're saving for a house.


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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #4 on: May 08, 2006, 07:51:36 AM »
I agree with Carla. You're young and, I'm assuming, don't have a family yet. Moving should be a great adventure! But, if it doesn't work out, you'd be able to move back to the US with relatively minimal hassle. Now's the perfect time to try things like this!

Incurable is also right -- a long visit to the UK (if possible) is a good idea and will help you decide if it's something you want to try on a more permanent basis.

Best of luck to you in whatever you decide! ;D
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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #5 on: May 08, 2006, 08:46:08 AM »
If you're not sure, you could get a 6 month Bunac visa (temporary work visa for recent graduates) and come & test the waters & see how you like it.  Good luck with your adventure!  :D


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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #6 on: May 08, 2006, 09:32:37 AM »
I think Britwife's suggestion is the best if you are unsure.  I came over on a 6 month work stint, travelled a bunch, made some friends at work and met a great guy.  It was a fantastic 6 months and was a spring board for a more permanent move.


Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #7 on: May 08, 2006, 12:25:32 PM »

Yes, I agree with BritWife too. It would be best to test the waters. As others have said, some folks love it here, others do not and have moved back to the states or have a plan to do so in the near/mid term future.   You just never know how you are going to feel until you have lived here (not just vacationed here).


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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #8 on: May 23, 2006, 08:58:43 PM »
I must add that some of the equation has to do with how you feel about life in the U.S.--it's sociology, politics, popular culture (in the broadest sense of the term), etc. Probably the less enamoured you are with these various aspects of the U.S., the less homesickness you'll experience, and the less desire to return to the U.S. However, the move is still likely to be a significant displacement - a realisation that may only dawn over time -even if you previously spent a lot of time visiting over here and trying to immerse yourself in British culture (broad meaning, again). It is true that - especially for persons who are a bit older and bit financially established in their lives in the States - moving to the UK is probably going to involve a lowered standard of living, decreased spending power, and worries about the quality of healthcare and elder-care. Cultural differences are subtle and pervasive -IMO- but you are likely to only become aware of these gradually, because they represent stylistic differences. The obvious stuff that you can easily see isn't important, and I'm amazed at the amount of whinging about trivialities that I read in this forum. It really is things that are more difficult to put your finger on (ways of working, personality and interpersonal style, approaches to practising certain professions, etc.) that can be troubling and less readily resolved than the fact that you can only buy small tubes of toothpaste and that "fortnightly" indicates a frequency of every 2 weeks.

BTW, me--I'm sick of the U.S., but some things like financial realities are hard to argue with.


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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #9 on: May 24, 2006, 10:38:51 PM »
well, i am really interested in this post! my husband is just now applying for HSMP. we should know in a few months if he really qualifies. i am so scared to move. we are putting our house up for sale this week! we planned on moving anyway so we figured - - - why not move to the UK?!?!?
But, i have two step daughters who would not come and a 5 year old son and 2 year old daughter. I am scared of moving them so far away - from all their grandparents. they don't see most of them anyway, but the ones they do see it will be hard to leave them.
also, i homeschool - don't know how that will be there.
anyway - this forum is really usefull


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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #10 on: May 25, 2006, 01:04:46 AM »
We are thinking about moving to the UK too (Hubby is English). And we hear all the time about how much more expensive it is in the UK... But I'm not sure if that is thats totally true. I think it depends on where you are coming from and where you are going to. Right now we live in the SF Bay Area...and could not buy a house if our lives depended on it. But in the UK we could afford a nice little cottage up near Manchester. (And in a good area too.) So I think cost is all relative.

But if you are moving to London...expect it to be like NY City: fun, exciting and expensive. :)


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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #11 on: May 25, 2006, 07:26:41 AM »
And we hear all the time about how much more expensive it is in the UK... But I'm not sure if that is thats totally true. I think it depends on where you are coming from and where you are going to. Right now we live in the SF Bay Area...and could not buy a house if our lives depended on it. But in the UK we could afford a nice little cottage up near Manchester. (And in a good area too.) So I think cost is all relative.

There are a few other people from the Bay Area on the board, so I'm sure they'll be able to back you up on this! It was true for me, as well, Amery -- moving from an expensive area of a northeastern city to a rural village in the UK. Housing costs are definitely relative!
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Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #12 on: May 26, 2006, 05:42:31 AM »
moving from an expensive area of a northeastern city to a rural village in the UK.


Hmmmmmm... expensive northeastern city.... there are sooooo many to choose from. Ummmm I'm going to guess, you're from Cambridge or maybe Wellesley? Or is it a town in CT?  :)



Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #13 on: May 26, 2006, 10:46:50 AM »
It's not as simple as just moving over.  Unless you've got UK or EU nationality, you can come on a BUNAC visa for 6 months to work.  But after that, you'll need an employer-sponsored work permit or if you qualify to work in a shortage profession such as social work or nursing or teaching secondary-level maths or sciences.



Re: Is moving to the UK a good Idea?
« Reply #14 on: May 26, 2006, 11:47:06 AM »
The only way to know if it is for you is to try it will be strange maybe to start with but you can look back in years to come and know you tried and maybe you will met some amazing people and have a wonderful time.


Good luck with your choice I hope you have a great time what ever you do and think of the travel  you could get in  :) good luck.


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