Mekaw so why does it keep changing?
Mostly because I'm having some medical issues that I would like resolved here in the US. Also, there is a lot going on in my BF's business right now which may cause him to move...I'm secretly hoping to the US! So he and I discussed putting the relocation off until these things are sorted out. I'm hoping it will all be sorted soon!!
Mekaw - are you a specialist/in a field where they are likely to hire someone still living aboard? I sure hope so, it was so sad reading about the decision you made after your last weekend together.
Yes, I hope

I have found a few postings and I have some contacts in the UK with their feelers out. I can get pretty impatient because I'm not the type to sit back and wait...When I make a decision I go for it...BF reminds me the sense of urgency is different in the UK and that although I've applied for work, it could take a few months to hear anything. I could apply for a transfer with my company, but I'd have to move to our Global HQ in Switzerland first. I'd prefer to say here.
He just wants me to come over ASAP and find a job once I get there. If I have to have this conversation with him once more!!!
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#1 - I can't; and #2 - I've done this before in a past relationship and it was horrible. I hated not working, mostly for social reasons. I don't want to go down that road again! I joked with him when he was here last we should get married and not tell our families so I can come over as his spouse and WORK!!!! We can have a proper wedding later. He actually considered it for a few minutes before telling me I was delusional!
I really want to be there by September, that's my goal! I'm just keeping myself as busy as possible and doing all I can to find a job. I know the summer is going to go fast and I'm happy for all of you that have your MOVE DATES confirmed!!
