NO, NO, NO, NNNNNNNOOOOOOOO!!! I do not want my mother to join me. I love her and all but I think that we spend way too much time together which makes my patience with her run VERY thin. I think me leaving will be good for both of us and will make me appreciate her more. Obviously, when she is old and can't take care of herself I'll move her over, but she's only 50. I think me leaving will also give her some independence and a chance to have a life which doesn't revolve around me and my son.
