Depressed

But question for the women though...

The first time you were apart, were you scared at all, that he would give up and find it to be easier to find someone who lives there?

no.  i never, not once, distrusted my husband (then boyfriend) just cause...well..we both knew it was it. we both had faith in each other...and we both never wanted to hurt the other.

i might show jealous tendancies and be protective but never once did i think he'd find someone else there.

I'm so scared I'm going to loose him , because 4 months is a really really long time!

If you lose someone because you're apart for 4 months, you really aren't theirs.  Four months is a tiny chunk of life, really.  If you have a solid commitment, you've nothing to worry about, and if you don't have much, the four months could finish it off.

I couldnt stand the distance either although we endured 3 months of it before I brought him to America and married him which made our lives alot easier and now when we go back I go back as his wife only needing a spousal visa...only new him 31 hours and that was 20 yrs ago...
good lukc
Kath