Thanks Britwife,
You were right - I booked the appointment to give notice in Swindon and the marriage in Bath.
For anyone who is interested, I got my COA form the other day, called Swindon reg (where I live, and just so happens to be one set up to handle non-EU people) and made an appointment.
Goes like this:
Appointment Oct 23 - to give "notice" - basically fiance and I go together, appointments at 9 am and 9:30 am (done by 10 am allegedly). Costs 30 pounds per person, so 60 pounds total.
They post our names, nationalities, address, occupations etc on their notice board for 2 weeks.
There is a minimum of 16 days between giving notice and having the ceremony.
In some cases the reg office will post the approval to your marriage site, but Swindon doesn't - they just give it to you to get over there. IMO this is better as it won't get lost in the post.
We have an appointment booked in Bath for the 11th of November for the marriage. That costs 43.50 pounds, which has to be brought in cash, in an envelope (don't know about the other sites). I had to tell Bath when the notice will be given, and they will cancel the marriage appointment if we don't give notice on the scheduled day.
So, 238.50 GBP
later (135 pounds for the COA, 60 pounds for giving notice, 43.50 for the marriage ceremony), 2 appointments, numerous phone calls and sending passports away for 1 month and voila!
We should hopefully be getting this legal stuff out of the way by mid Nov!
I CANT believe how expensive it is - if fiance wasn't an EU / British citizen we would have had to get him a COA too - at a cost of another 135 pounds. I heard it costs $40 in the States!
And this isn't even the "real" wedding - we are getting married overseas in a year and a half. Yikes.
Thanks for the help!
Katie