Katadina, thanks for sharing your story.
Im 39 and have never had a mamogram. I believe once my GP (England) told me they dont do mamograms for women under fifty. FIFTY??
Pebbles, sad but true for alot of years and I think the UK is changing now to some degree and there are alot more laws regulations coming into play so that may very well change soon Ihope.
MY old GP back in the states gave me one everytime I had a spear. Even when I was 18. But then again my aunt has breast cancer
GOOD! They do tend to be more attentive when a family member has had the cancer.
I have a lot of breast cancer in my family, but still in the US my primary care doc didn't think I needed one before 40.
Chary are you in England now? Because if you are in the US, find another doctor, that dr was is an idiot. Im sorry to offend but with a family history they need to be proactive and if they arent, you arent getting good care and that is not fair to you. If you are in england find a doctor, explain the amount of cancer and do all you can to get a mammogram done. With your family history they should have no problems with it.
Some of the guidelines that the NHS sets forward are just stupid. Pap smears every 3 years? Teeth cleaning every two years? That's just ridiculous.
I have to agree with this statement although with regards to cancer once you have had it or a bad family history of it from all the research I have done they seem to take very good care of you. Sadly though it does seem to be a postal code system where some get better care than others depending on the hospital the live near.
We have no family history of breast cancer, but loads of other types of cancer. Does anyone know if other types of cancer can make you pre-disposed to breast cancer or is it only a history of breast cancer that makes you more likely to get it?
Tristessa, prostate cancer is the sister cancer if you will to breast cancer. If prostate cancer is in the family you have a higher chance of getting breast cancer. For instance I have a son and a daughter and now that I have had breast cancer my daughter is a higher risk for breast cancer and my son is a higher risk for prostate cancer. So far this is the only link that they have found but I have to wonder if many years from now they will find an ovarian cancer/breast Cancer/prostate cancer link.
i had my baseline at 25 after finding a lump. turned out to be nothing more than a fibroid cyst, but better safe than sorry.
my gram never had one. two years ago, when she was 85, i found a lump while giving her a bath (she's had a stroke & is paralysed on her right side). we talked her into seeing her doctor about it, and after a mammogram & biopsy, we learned it was malignant (on 24 december--great christmas that was). so, at the age of 85 and partially paralysed, she underwent a lump- and lymphectomy and radiation. been all clear now since the surgery.
but my point is this: if it can happen to her, it can happen to anyone. cancer is a nondiscriminatory f*cker.
do those self-exams in the shower--don't be too scared. and fight your doctors for scans if you sense anything--anything--out of the ordinary.
i cannot believe i have to wait another 18 years before i qualify to have a mammogram in the uk. they can bite my pasty white ass if thry think i'm not gonna hound them for one way sooner than that.
Niku2
bless your grandma for having to deal with all of that such an older age. It must've been so hard on her am bless you for your fighting spirit because that Spirit will save your life if cancer ever does come. You of cancer in the family now and at an early age he found a cyst. That in itself should be enough for a mammogram yearly for you.
I will end this long e-mail with these last few thoughts. I don't care what country are in if you have cancer in your family and have ever found a cyst in your breast keep battling them and be an advocate for yourself and get a mammogram done.
First and foremost learn how to do breast exams they are not hard once you know your own breasts you will be able to tell if there is something different about them. Do them in the shower, lay down on your bed and before you go to bed lay on your back with your breasts flat and examine them. Make sure you examine under your arms and your collarbone and if you ever have a lump on your neck make sure you address that with the doctor.
My mother-in-law had breast cancer in the UK and was very well taken care of but had a completely different way of treating her. My treatment here in America was very aggressive but my cancer was very aggressive and I was very young. The UK has less documented cases of breast cancer than the US. But currently has a higher fatality rate.
That is going down and they are working really hard with new rules and regulations that the hospitals have to follow to find it earlier and keep people safe.
But I don't care what country you are in, if you don't do breast examinations you are more apt to find it later than sooner than later comes with a whole new set of complications.
But if there is one thing I say with the deepest passion in my heart please hear this. They offered me breast implants and told me I would feel beautiful again and they hoped that that would help alleviate some of the horror. But they never told me that breast implants don't work for every person, they never explained the extreme pain and a horrible health crisises that come with some implant's. Now at 41 I'm more flat-chested than a 10-year-old and although I'm secure in who I am it has been a long hard ride and I would never wish it on anyone.
Jane Plant is an author in the UK per book is entitled "your life in your hands". It's a good read for some her methods may be a bit extreme but her point is clear. We have to be our greatest advocate, we have to care more about ourselves than the medical professionals in any country do. We have toyell b*tch and scream to get what we need,
because it's far better than being a statistic.
And remember cancer doesn't just affect you it affects everyone loves you. My daughter still has panic attacks because my cancer affected her so much. So do this one little thing and learn how to do self breast examinations. If you ever want to talk PM me. I have contacts in the US and the UK, and I know the good hospitals in both countries.
Thanks for listening,
Kath