Hey Sharpshooter,
First welcome to the board. You will find this to be a very helpful, friendly bunch and no matter how complicated you think you're situation is, I'll bet you a beer, somebody here has the answer you need.
(also as for immigration horror stories... oh there are many here on this board, so feel free to share, you're among friends and veterans of the immigration game
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Friendly suggestion, if you post on the introductions board, explain your situation, and a little more about your plans (do you plan to be married here in England, back home, etc...) you'll be amazed by the responses and how helpful people can be.
You can always also post a new thread in this same board, which would help as well. I'd hate for your questions to get missed being at the end of a different thread.
Best of luck to you both. Hope we can help.
Red