Happy anniversaries, PB! I'm approaching 6 years on UKY, myself. Or maybe I'm there... six years ago now, I would've been looking into the elusive "girlfriend visa", I think. I will research and report back when I'm less overwhelmed with to-dos.
Have an amaaaaaazing trip, KoD!
God luck with the driving, Margo. If you think you'll need to drive an automatic, anyway, you should just go for that license. Don't hurt yourself needlessly.
I'm sorry to hear about your friend, Nan. I often don't know what to say in times like that, either. You're being great by send her little reminders that you care.
My five:
1. Eeeek! In-laws re coming tomorrow, so we have a LOT of cleaning, etc., to do today.
2. Plus, we have to put 16 drawer fronts on my husband's workbench, do some cursory weeding to look like we've been sort of maintaining the garden even halfway, and think of what we'll do for dinner while they're here. They've offered to take us out (they're bringing me a birthday present, and dinner would be a treat for my birthday), but I'd rather stay in. Staying in requires a dinner plan, though. And forxsome reason, my husband doesn't like my idea of making eggrolls for them.

3. Birthday month/week is coming to a close. My actual birthday was Wednesday, and I can say it was one of the jolliest. We were up late the night before, playing backgammon and listening to music, and at midnight, the playlist shifted suddenly to variations of the birthday song, my husband tuened on the disco lights, and a drink loosely resembling an amaretto sour appeared next to me (soon followed by another...). We went to sleep around half-three, and started up again at 9am. There was a trail of hazelnut truffles (my favorite lindt lindor truffles) leading out to a large box in the lounge covered by a sheet... only a jointer/planer-thicknesser! Wheeeee! We had breakfast, made doughnuts, went out to workshop to assemble The Machine and play with it, worked on the drawer fronts (see #2), came in and had my birthday dinner of steak and chips, relaxed a bit, then gave in and went to bed at about 11pm... maybe midnight.
4. Hedonism is an awesome way of life, and I don't know why I didn't embrace it sooner. I can't believe how many years I devoted to just doing what was expected of me. I love this life!
5. My husband proves himself to be my perfect companion over and over and over again. Yay!