Thanks so much everyone - I am overwhelmed with your kind thoughts and warm welcomes.
Sherwood: Such a hard decision, but no doubt the correct one for your dog, good for you. I am impressed, so many people think nothing of dragging their pets along with them despite the massive change and trauma of a trip.
I am heading back to Connecticut -it's not my dream location admittedly, but it's where in-laws and my best friend is. Just out of interest, where you are now, is where I grew up and went to school and I am right on the coast about 45 mins from you!
Welcome to the UK and I hope you have a happy time here.
Best wishes everyone
Sheril.