well, it looks like it's too late to begin this process for now. We have too many documents that need processing to be complete before we leave.
Oh, and the website
www.englishforum.ch is for people living in/moving to Switzerland. I tried posting a question there and they were very rude and completely deleted my post because I'm not planning to move to Switzerland.
I must say, this forum has been so nice and polite - even when one makes a mistake and posts in the wrong place...
Thanks for your help and support in this thread. Maybe we can change our status for my second year or something.