I just bought everything for nachos yesterday when I did my weekly shop. This morning I told dh that we were having that for dinner tomorrow and he was so excited! He did ask if I'd bought meat for them - I told him no, that I just got refried beans, jalapenos, etc. and he decided that would be OK.

I even found Cool Chile chilis in adobo at Sainsburys which made me very happy.
Has anyone seen any melted cheese in a tin?
Sorry, no offence meant, but that's just wrong. Cheese in England is far too good - buy something local (ie. chemical and additive free), grate it and melt it in the oven over the rest of the stuff. If it's not saucy enough google a recipe for cheese sauce and make your own - it's so much better for you to get cheese, milk, flour, etc. than to buy fake cheese in a tin....
And I've noticed that the meat here is stringy? Mince meat? But when we've had nachos, the meat was more clustered into balls and not stringy.... I don't know if there's a different between mince and ground beef? Or if my mom just cut the meat up or what.....
Mince is ground beef. Buy a decent quality one or an extra lean one and it won't be stringy. Whether or not it's in clumps or quite broken up will depend on how you cook it.