I've not had anything (knowingly) appear before me of the supernatural, ok I take that back. Once...I'll get to it.
I do feel that I am a very emotional person at times, especially when it comes to boyfriends. I did not have a boyfriend until my late teens, and that relationship ended badly and needless to say, brought out the worst in me. It was also around that time that I started to have very vivid dreams in which my maternal grandmother would appear and talk to me, even though at the time she had been gone for six years.
It was funny, she'd always appear as this gold, Oscar-like statue, only she was ambulatory, unlike the statue.
In the dreams, I would consciously talk with her about what was bugging me about my current dating partner. She would answer, in what I understand is spirit fashion, in one-word sentences or very short, clipped phrases. When I'd say something particularly unsavory, her favorite thing to reply with was, "a**hole!", which was, when she was alive, her favorite derogatory term for anyone who she wasn't happy with. More words like that would follow..."that a**hole! that booger!", and her personal favorite insult, "that turdcart!!"
But oddly enough, she would never tell me what to do. No matter what though, when I had those dreams, I would wake up with an overwhelming sense of peace in the morning.
She started appearing in my dreams after I saw a demon-like face in a dark corner of my apartment one night while I was going through my first bad breakup. What that was, if it was a figment or my imagination or what, I'll not know, but it was an UGLY thing, with three large eyes, three small ones, and an open mouth wanting to say something to me but remained silent. Plus it was pea-green-fluorescent yellow, a color like I hadn't seen in this world. I've not seen anything like it since and don't particularly care to again.
Anyway, over the next few years, my grandmother would appear in my dreams from time to time when I was experiencing difficulty in my personal or professional life. When I would explain the problem to her, she would always tell me, "You know what you need to do." On one particular occasion, as I was telling her about a crush I had, she gave me that response and soon after, the person and I became a couple. That relationship was the longest one, and best one, of my life so far. Sadly though, we are no longer together.
She hasn't appeared in my dreams since, and that's been over six years ago now. I thought I would experience a dream, something, with regards to the most recent breakup I had, but I have not. I wonder what that may mean.
I miss talking to her in my dreams, though. This woman and I were extremely close.