I have really bad reactions to artifical sweeteners...like getting headaches so bad I end up laying in the dark on my bed in the fetal position holding my head hoping my brains don't explode.

Seriously bad headaches and nausea.
My issue is when someone doesn't tell me something is made with artificial sweeteners. I learned the hard way that at a child's birthday party or any other party when they have cake, I have to ask if it has artificial sweeteners in it, because a lot of people get those cakes thinking it's better for the children since there's no sugar in it.

My mom is convinced it's just because I don't like the taste, so she has made things like cheesecake using Splenda without telling me until I've finished eating a piece.

So she can prove how good it tastes. My issue isn't with the taste (well yes it is in a way..because it tastes like crap IMO

) but please don't poison me just to try to prove some point.
