I envy you being able to go see your mom as well. We have family all over the US but can barely afford the one flight, from here to Atlanta.
We usually do 3 different destinations in 2 weeks - this time is no exception. Mom in Kansas, brother in Atlanta, my storage unit (and the beach) in Tampa Bay. This time is the cheapest time we've had in the last 3 trips! Only £583 each -- includes transatlantic flights & all the internal/domestic flights within the US. I didn't think that was too bad. We never book it through any of the 'cheap flights' websites though -- either they don't give a good price and/or they 'can't compute' the complexity of the itinerary. We end up getting the best deal (and least hassle) booking directly with the airline, with the multiple trip legs on a single itinerary.
Even so, there will still be some disappointed friends & family members in Maine and in Baltimore.

I looked at going on other autumnal dates -- checked September & October time frames, thinking around Thanksgiving would be more expensive. Not! It was more expensive to go Sept/Oct than the dates we booked in Nov. Of course, I've gotten pretty good at plugging in different travel dates to get a better price -- a bit fiddly & time consuming, but worth it all the same. (Helps to have a pilot in the family who can coach you on when do more people travel, when are better days to travel -- for instance, being willing to travel on Thanksgiving Day itself -- it'll be less crowded, relatively speaking, and cheaper than on the dates surrounding it. Stuff like that.)
