This is awfully late, but I had to share me & hubby's Virgin experiences...
Back when hubby was young, he would come back to FL to vsit his Dad. Once they went to Disney and hubby got some cool toy guns there (like dueling pistol-type.)
Virgin wouldn't let him take them in the cabin. Fine. They put them in the hold or something. But when they landed, the guns were gone. No explanation or compensation was ever offered.
A few years later. Hubby is 16. Virgin cancels his flight home to UK at last minute. Does not offer him-a minor-any assistance in finding another flight home. He finally gets a Pan Am flight, thanks to the assistance of the Pan Am people, NOT Virgin.
1999. Hubby and sd make a visit to England. Virgin loses their luggage on return flight, including a dress that MIL made sd from material hubby's stepsister brought back from Nigeria. irreplaceable. (Thank goodness he didn't pack our wedding rings, which he bought on that trip!)
2000. We are ready to book our honeymoon. Virgin is offering a deal to employees of my husband's work, $250 roundtrip if you fly between Feb 1-March 30. Our wedding is April 8.
So hubby writes Virgin a letter. He details everything I've just said here, and concludes by basically saying, "If youll extend this deal for me to go on my honeymoon I'll fly Virgin again. If not, I never will."
So they did. And it was a lovely flight.
If you get the right people, I think Virgin will really go out of their way.
But I agree, it certainly doesn't hurt to threaten them a bit.