Oh Stacey! Invite us all! Weddings in England (and possibly the whole of Britain) seem not to be so stiff and starchy as they in the US. Noone here minds a cash bar (see that thread elsewhere), noone wants the marrying couple or the bride's dad to bankrupt themselves, noone criticizes the size or quality of a lady's engagement ring (see yet another thread), everyone wants to support the bride and groom in their love and commitment one for each other. If anyone finds fault in any way with any of your wedding arrangements, they are not true friends of yours. S0d them!
So the success of your wedding arrangements, dear Stacey, are not dependent on what is spent on them, but on the quality of your friends' wishes for your happiness.
And I wish you both total happiness, and know you have the means to find it.
Howard