Hi All,
Perhaps I should've gone on the welcome wagon first, but I'm new and here's my story.
I am in the same boat as many of you, with a British guy I've known since 9/06 and been in a serious relationship since August 07. I have been living with him and we are absolutely crazy about each other but not ready to wed (yet).
Here is my travel history:
9/06-3/07: BUNAC visa
3/26-5/08/07: Visitor
Then Germany for 5 weeks, and:
6/11-6/22/07: Visitor, fell in love fast w/ Duncan
Home for 5 weeks earning money to come back.
8/01/07-1/31/08: Visitor for full term, planned on getting a WP but company backed out with 2 weeks to go on my leave; thus I was screwed as my time in UK as a visitor was now way over the limit.
Flew home, applied for visitor visa, was DENIED with a horrific little stamp due to previous time spent in UK as a visitor, after going on bad advice from the UKVisas helpline who said there was no actual 6/12 month limit and I could apply, no problem. Although the official reasons for the denial (since they aren't supposed to deny you outright based on the spent leave rule) were that I hadn't provided enough financial docs, and my sponsor was not a British citizen (unsigned passport copy).
2/14/08-4/14/08: Visitor; I flew back anyway and got in because a) I had a nice IO, b) I had all my documents and explained that the reason my VV to my boyfriend was denied was due to the lack of these docs in the application, and c) he only caught on to how long I actually had been there before as a visitor near the end of him stamping my passport. This seemed to make him nervous but he assured me that as I had satisfied him my intentions were genuine, I shouldn't have problems traveling in the future as long as I adhered to my conditions of leave and "kept my nose clean", and was able to state my case in the future and back it up with documents, although I would def be questioned about the denied visa.
Now, in the time I was over there, my boyfriend and I decided to apply to get our PGCEs this fall and become international teachers; we both love to travel and he doesn't want to be a supply chain manager for the rest of his life. He got in (Yay!) to Bristol and I have an interview May 12th (Crap!), which I need to be back for.
We are also flying out to Italy at the end of May for his brother's wedding, and I'd be flying back to the states in early June for my student visa application.
Basically, I really want to chance it through Gatwick one more time, rather than rush the prospective student visa (which is technically a visitor visa, and also you have to prove INTENTION TO LEAVE should you not get on the course). Those two things would be what the ECO would screw me on, given my previous visiting & visa history. Even if my student loans get processed in time for me to show proof of funds, there is always this subjectivity of the evil ECO.
I just cannot see being denied entry as I only need to be in for the interview and wedding, and have never overstayed, and the last IO said I'd be alright; I would explain that I'm well aware of being seen as a risk, and of seeming like I'm taking the piss, but I'm really not and I only need to be here for the interview and the wedding and then I'm gone in the beginning of June to apply for the student visa. I would of course be with my boyfriend, showing proof of funds and my return ticket, and my interview letter, as well as evidence that I have been in contact with an Immigration Solicitor about preparing a student visa for June.
As an aside, the immigration solicitor thinks I shouldn't risk Gatwick and feels confident my prospective student visa would be approved, and she could refute the previous denial in the new application....BUT, I do not. I have a funny feeling the ECO would be using my recent refusal and previous time in England as evidence to assume I am just trying to find any way at all of getting in the country and wouldn't leave at the end. I am a very friendly, open, articulate person and I know the rules and can explain myself; much easier to refuse me on paper than face to face.
I can neither afford another visa denial nor refusal of entry.
Opinions? And thanks a million for all who took the time to read this lengthy post.
Diana