Thanks so much for all the help! And I can't wait to see the advocacy article, cuz it'll probably answer a few of my remaining qs!
The only problem that I have now is that'll it'll take 3 months for Ontario to register our marriage and then get a marriage certificate. I doubt the "Record of Solemnization" they give out the day of the marriage wouldn't do any good in my EEA application, right? I'd need that uber official marriage certificate? *le sigh*
So yeah, right now my options that don't take forever seem to be:
1. If they took the aforementioned record instead of an official marriage certificate as proof of our marriage.
2. If we could get me in with a EEA family permit as a proposed civil partner.
3. To go the original UK proposed civil partnership route.
I was really liking the idea of this EEA family permit since its restrictions are less than a PCP visa (not to mention free) and the thought of not getting a visa just about kills me.