Alright, I have to apply for ILR by the end of May. Two months ago I sent an email to my ex-husbeast asking for another letter stating that he gave permission for our 17 yo son to remain in the UK and receive ILR with me. (Turns out that my 19 yo will have to get an extension on her FLR because she is over 18 now...the kids came in November, but have the same June expiry date as I do...so she will not have been here long enough for ILR.) I have had the kids speak to him twice since then...because he refuses to speak to me saying that if HIS kids need anything they are old enough to ask him themselves. He said he never got the first email, so I resent it last week, still nothing. We are running out of time here. Is there any chance that they will grant ILR to my 17 yo? I can include a long letter explaining the situation, copies of the emails and even the dates of the phone calls off our bill.
My son is finishing his GCSEs and has already been accepted into a good college for his A-levels. He has friends here. He does not want to go back to the US. If he did, he would be behind in credits to graduate from high school. I guess I shouldn't be surprised at my ex's behaviour he always has been a selfish s*$, but I could cry, scream and beat the crap out of him for this one.