I agree with what most everyone has said. When I moved here, I moved into a house that used to belong to DH's grandparents; we rent from his parents now. So a lot of things were either in my MIL's name or in DH's. It's been like pulling teeth to get my name on anything, let alone DH's. When DH called BT to get the account changed from his grandfather's name to his name, they even had the gall to say that the current account holder would have to cancel the account first. How could he when he was dead?! I have had a really hard time getting my name added to other things, and not for lack of trying. I could go on and on, but you get the point.
I find it interesting that nowhere on the ILR documents does it ask for a marriage license. It asks for a civil partnership certificate, but no marriage license. I am submitting ours just in case, but I would think that we be a no-brainer. Also, quite frankly, I'm surprised at the lack of guidance that the HO offers when issuing visas. When I got my spouse visa, I wasn't told anything about the next step. The only way I found about ILR was through this site, and I only found this site by accident. So hopefully, since everything else is in order and I do have some evidence and will have a letter from my GP stating that I have been a patient of hers from the beginning (to fill in the gaps when I have no mail), I won't have a problem. Even though I disagree that this is a just a Muslim issue, I'm glad that the issue has been brought up at all. Obviously, it has opened up a lot of debate.