Hi:
I haven't posted on here before, so I hope I am not interrupting the conversation unduly.
I am an American, and I have just sent my ILR application as the spouse of a British citizen in on 8 May 2008. I also found the documentation requirements confusing. This is from someone who in her life in the US ran a study-abroad programme and had to advise students on their visas!
I included 34 documents with the application (utility bills, pension statements and letters, home content insurance, council tax, car insurance, prescription, letters from the surgery, letters from HM Revenue and Customs , letter from estate agents concerning the sale of an investment property, and some bibs and bobs), in addition to all of my original bank statements (24), all of my husband's original bank statements (24), all of his weekly wage slips from the past two years, and all of mine which were sent to our house. Many of these documents were in both our names, but some were in separate names, like my prescription from the surgery.
The Home Office told me it wasn't necessary to include our marriage certificate, as we had done that for FLR. Let's hope I wasn't being ill advised.
BT also gave us the same problem about not having two persons' names on the bill, and it took quite a lot of persistence to have the c/o line added. I also found you can add two person's names electronically on most utility bills, and then request paper billing.
At this point, I just hope that it all works out, and I can quit making these increasingly expensive applications soon. I came here in 2004 on an academic visa to run a study-abroad program for my previous university when I met my husband. I received another academic visa in 2005 for my research sabbatical (I'm an uni lecturer), applied for and received FLR as a spouse in 2006, now am doing the ILR. I suspect though next year, I'll apply for citizenship, which will make it a total of five times I've been vetted by the Home Office. Whew.
Though I understand the need to screen potential residents/citizens, I wish there were an easier way.
Anyhow, best of luck to everyone going through the process, and I wish I would have discovered this board a bit sooner. The immigration advice on here is top-notch.
Buglet