You don't HAVE to stay with your fiancee while she gets her visa. If you HAVE to fly back, you have to fly back. The consulate will not even let you on the elevator to the 12th floor unless you have an appointment. You won't get an appointment for a visa and they won't let you just pop over for a visit.
You've been given good advice about your timeline. If you aren't open to suggestion or advice, why did you ask for it? You've obviously made up your mind and your plans are set. I hope it works out for you but I think your timeline leaves no room for error or delay. You don't know what's going to happen and if for whatever reason, they need more time, you will waste a lot of money.
FWIW, my visa took 12 days from LA.
Can you do me a favour please? Go back over this thread and point out exactly where I have given ANY indication that I am not willing to take peoples advice, as I've been back over it myself and can't see where your arguement stems from.
All I have done is answer the questions put to me, and in one instance elaborated on it.
You told me that the time between my planned licence application and the wedding was over 90 days - it isn't! Not ignoring your advice, it simply is not over 90 days!
You then advised me about the time it takes to get the wedding certificate - I took your advice and rang the Santa Clara/San Jose clerk recorders office, and they said I could pick it up the next working day.
Those were the only two points you thought there would be a problem with, and I have looked into it and have found that they won't cause any issue.
I asked about visiting the consulate - a simple 'no, that won't be possible' would have sufficed, no need for the sarky remark.
One regular poster gives me grief, and it isn't long before another one jumps on the bandwagon - thanks garry, very constructive.
Finally, it is very important for us to travel back together - she has been to visit me four times in eight months, and in those four visits we have been to Europe twice. She has been hassled an unfair amount IMO on the return from Europe, to the degree where she was almost in tears and I had to go and speak to the Immigration Control 'Head Officer' (or whatever he is called), to make a complaint about the woman who was hassling my fiance - one of the things she said was that my fiance 'shouldn't assume the UK will let her in, just because she is married'!
FWIW - he agreed she was out of line and should have said no such thing.
If anyone has anything constructive to say, I would be glad to hear it, any sarky, unnecessary comments with an over-negative tone can be kept to yourself.