Hello
Just wondering if anyone else out there feels as unsettled as I do. Hubby and I have been through a whirlwind experience since meeting. I will try to briefly sum it up below:
1. Hubby and I meet, keep up a long distance relationship for over a year, and hubby moves over to US while I finish university--we marry within that time.
2. Hubby moves back to UK, I graduate, and soon follow.
3. We live in UK for a year, not really knowing where to settle. I am unhappy during this time as I initially had a hard time adjusting.
4. We attempt a poorly planned move to the USA, staying with my parents, Yikes!! As the job market was pretty bad and we did not want to stay in the area where my parents live, we MOVE BACK to England after a few short months.
5. Here we are again. Hubby went back to old job, I am at same contract job looking for permanent work. We still wake up each weekend and ponder moving again to the US. There are many reasons that we still visit the move to the US: two at the top of the list are house prices and weather.
Are we crazy? We are feeling crazy at the moment. Why can't we just settle? I guess we should never have moved back to the area that we initially moved from. It just turned out that his employer was the one who offered the most money. We like the area and you would be surprised what living with the parents again will drive you to. Not only did we live with my parents, but lived with his when we moved back over.
Does anyone else feel as unsettled? One day I like it here. I have made some fabulous friends. The next, when I am faced with yet another rainy dreary day, or am having a look around at some 2-bed dump in our price bracket, I want to move to Florida.
Any similar experiences or advice?