I'm another one who is completely irritated by the refusal to pronounce in the french way.
I will admit to pronouncing "foyer" with the r in America, simply because I come from an area where if I didn't pronounce the r I'd be considered pretentious.

I made the mistake of saying "foyer" while with my BF over the summer, and got practically laughed out of the country. Yet, I'm supposed to sit back and accept filleT, GARage and Herb.
...there are no other words for it other than simply IRRITATING