Okies. I can only tell you what happened with me. First off, I came over on a visitor's visa....but was NOT planning on getting married....I was planning to go back after 5 months for a friend's wedding in the states (I was supposed to be a bridesmaid), and then either off to Georgia for art school, OR if I found a school over here that I liked, looking into attending here.
I flew over on the 1st of November, 2000. David and I were engaged on the 19th. When ya know, ya know.
So okay, we needed to see about keeping me in the country. We called to ask about possibly changing over to a school visa...as I did want to take classes, and that way we'd have longer before we had to get married. Well. I got lied to by immigration. I was told that if I wanted a school visa, then I could only study in England for a year, and then I had to leave the country and couldn't come back for at least 5 years. Screw that. So we asked if I could go home at the original planned time (which was only 5 months, so totally covered by my 6 months visitor visa), and then come back a few months later to get married. Nope. If I left the country they
might not let me back in the country for a minimum of 6 months, maximum of 2 years Again, screw that. So David and I ended up getting married 9th February 2001 (a month before I had planned to go to my friend's wedding) and set about applying for the marriage visa. In the end we got it, but honestly, if I'd known then what I know now, I'd have flown home got married there and applied for spousal visa while still in the states. As it was, I now have my indefinite leave to remain, but missed my friend's wedding while waiting on paperwork and will only be visiting home for the first time in over 2 years next month.
Hopefully with actual sane advice from the people on this list, your experience won't be, hmmm...nearly so interesting.
lol
but it all worked out in the end, promise!
wench