Hey there Stoatula!!
I was in the same sittuation as you--- nearly homeless and still no visa approval! BUT- i shipped my stuff anyhow!

I used a company out of Jersey- and it was DIRT cheap! I, like you, didn't have enought to fill a container, so, i just paid for the dimentions of my pallets. I didn't have any furnature, so it was only two pallets (and appreantly the guy taking up the rest of the container had a Benz and a Porche... I'm still trying to find him

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Anyhow- I didn;t have to give them a fully itomized list, just a rough idea... So, as I packed, I numbered all the boxes (1of20, 2of20, 3of20...etc) and then made a cooresponding pack list. (This was also REALLY reassuring to me because when I picked them up here, I could make sure they were all there!!!

Never know!)
Two things : 1)I adressed the entire shipment to my (now) husband, just incase there was any confusion 2)DO NOT send anything 'new' or you will have to pay HORRIBLE customs/VAT fees here!!!! So- wash, dust, and fingerprint everything!

I wanted to bring a few things new for cooking and that, so the night before packing up the last of the boxes, I had a major kitchen party to break it all in!!

Going by sea was the best way ever! Dead cheap- and very worth it! I don't think I could have replaced even 1/2 my stuff here!! And whenever my husband and I have guests- they are always like 'oh I LOVE your dishes/furnishings/spices...'!
Anyhow, if you need any more help- just ask! I still have the shipping sticker from my pallets! I hung it up as a trophy! : (The pick up was a bit of an ordeal for my husband and I as we live in Wiltshire, and the ship came in in Suffolk!!)