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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1905 on: May 15, 2009, 06:35:46 PM »
Can I just vent for a minute?  Feel free to skip the rest of this post if you'd like.

So the past month or so we've had various crises at work.  The past 2 weeks, especially, a bunch of people were pulled off our normal work duties to handle the crisis.  It also involved some late hours, working on the weekends, etc.

Of the 20+ people that I worked with directly, there were about 5 of us that actually bothered to monitor progress over this one weekend when things were still up in the air (including me).  (By "monitor progress", I mean actually communicate with each other over the weekend and work to resolve outstanding issues.  99% of the other people were completely unavailable.)  Between losing my entire weekend to work, and coming in at 5am to help resolve the issue during the week, I probably put in about 120 hours over the course of the 2 weeks to get this crisis fixed.  Most of the other people probably averaged more like 90-100 hours over the 2 weeks.

Today, we get to our monthly company meeting where we hand out awards, and there's barely any lip service paid to the 20 of us, let alone the 5 of us that put in the extra time/lost sleep/lost weekends/etc.  Which really frustrates me...not because I think that my 120 hour effort was especially note/award-worthy, but the fact that it was compared to everyone else's 90-100 hour effort, I feel that's worth a mention.

And...nothing.

I know it's silly to gripe about this sort of thing...I have a job, a steady paycheck, I even got a raise this year (albeit a tiny one).  In most respects, my job is really great.  In the area of recognition for work, though, I think this sort of thing is the norm rather than the exception, at least in my department.  And while I enjoy what I do, I would like to get recognized when I outperform my peers in some fashion.

/End rant...thanks to anyone who's still reading this...
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1906 on: May 15, 2009, 06:49:39 PM »
you have every right to vent...you should have been at least given recognition for the work you put in. Especially giving up your weekend and all the extra work you did...and you probably weren't paid overtime for it...you just want someone to recognize it and at least say thank you...there is nothing wrong with this...you have every right to be upset..I worked at a job where there were some nights where we ended up getting stuck on an issue and having to work with the client all night..and when they finally aknowledged that someone went above and beyond it was usually someone who had no involvement or was involved for like five minutes...I am sorry they did that too you at work and I completley understand...I hope things get better for you

Hey Carey when do you leave to come to England for a visit?

Beth you will be here at the end of this month right?

I am now trying to figureout invitations for the wedding...so wedding stuff still continues..Jason is taking me to my fav italian restaraunt tonght and he has a big surprise for me...I can't wait to find out what it is....

Jamie have fun at your concert...

Becca how is Tim and how is PA anything new and exciting...

To all of the other ladies on here have a great weekend....

Patty is there ever going to be a good time to call you lol
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1907 on: May 15, 2009, 07:04:40 PM »
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you have every right to vent...you should have been at least given recognition for the work you put in. Especially giving up your weekend and all the extra work you did...and you probably weren't paid overtime for it...you just want someone to recognize it and at least say thank you...there is nothing wrong with this...you have every right to be upset..I worked at a job where there were some nights where we ended up getting stuck on an issue and having to work with the client all night..and when they finally aknowledged that someone went above and beyond it was usually someone who had no involvement or was involved for like five minutes...I am sorry they did that too you at work and I completley understand...I hope things get better for you

Thanks, glad to know I'm not the only one.  (Well, actually, that sucks, but misery does love company, as they say...) And no, no overtime, just free food sometimes (which led to food poisoning, which is a whole 'nother saga).

Actually, about 5 of my supervisors (at various levels of the company hierarchy) did specifically thank me for my time, which was nice.  I just get the feeling that if that many people above me in the chain recognized my efforts, is it too much to ask to get an actual official recognition from the company as well?  On the one hand, I feel stupid for even letting this get to me, but on the other hand...I can't really put "a bunch of people thanked me for stuff" on my resume, you know?  Whereas I can put "Awarded _____ for my efforts doing ____".  Not that my resume is the end-all/be-all, but I am 100% sure that I will not spend the rest of my career at this company...if for no other reason than they have no international offices! ;)
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1908 on: May 15, 2009, 07:15:30 PM »
Ugh. I am sorry to hear that!  Venting is absolutely allowed here anytime :)   Maybe (yeah right) they will see the error of their ways when things calm down a bit and recognize you later.

Josy - I'll be on my way in THREE days!  I cannot wait.  I need a hug :)
I am waiting to hear about this surprise!!  Have a great night!  Speaking of Italian food, I'm off to have lunch with a friend at Olive Garden. Yippee


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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1909 on: May 15, 2009, 07:22:10 PM »
EQnerd, that is definitely crappy! It sort of explains why they others didn't go above and beyond- because there is no incentive of any kind to do so! They may have been burnt in the past like you. Sorry! No words of wisdom, but you do have my sympathy! :)

Josy- yep! 15 days!!!!!!!!!! I'm so excited. Everyday, I'm working on my day trip plans. I like having my train tickets bought and paid for so I don't have to worry about that. Sooooo much to look forward to, you know?? So??? What is the big surprise at dinner?? I'm so curious! Hope you had fun.

Jamie- what concert are you going to?

Hope you are all doing well! Carey- just a few more days, right chica? Woo!!

Later.. back to class now!
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1910 on: May 15, 2009, 07:23:04 PM »
BTW, did anyone notice we're almost up to 2000 posts in here? Crazy!!
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1911 on: May 15, 2009, 07:46:37 PM »
Ugh. I am sorry to hear that!  Venting is absolutely allowed here anytime :)   Maybe (yeah right) they will see the error of their ways when things calm down a bit and recognize you later.

Josy - I'll be on my way in THREE days!  I cannot wait.  I need a hug :)
I am waiting to hear about this surprise!!  Have a great night!  Speaking of Italian food, I'm off to have lunch with a friend at Olive Garden. Yippee

Hehe, you'll have to wave to Steve as you're going over there, since he'll be flying out here in three days as well :P I definitely need to sort out the house but I always leave that till the day before or the day he flies in (always gets here in the evening) to give myself something to do so I don't go stir crazy. So yeah, I'm really just trying to summon the energy to do the things I need to do, and then try to relax for a couple weeks while he's here :)
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1912 on: May 15, 2009, 08:22:02 PM »
My trip  to Fl? SUCKS, but I'll get into that later when I'm on my own computer again.

Tammy, what do you need NJ for? I'll be back in PA tomorrow night...can I do anything?
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1913 on: May 15, 2009, 08:40:03 PM »
My trip  to Fl? SUCKS, but I'll get into that later when I'm on my own computer again.

Tammy, what do you need NJ for? I'll be back in PA tomorrow night...can I do anything?

Oh, I was just whinging since that's where Steve's layover is at, if I lived closer he wouldn't have to bother with the second leg of his trip :P Or sorting out a phone call, but he says he'll use the payphone and possibly his Ipod if he can get a signal somewhere in the airport. He told me not to worry about it, so I'll try not to O.o

Sorry your trip has sucked majorly, it's a shame really :(
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1914 on: May 15, 2009, 09:07:50 PM »
Nice...

So during our weekly team meeting, the official word is "well, everyone was awesome, and we don't want to single out anyone who was extra-awesome because then the regular-awesome folks might feel bad".

WTF?

I wish this sort of crazy logic applied for non-awesome stuff.  "Yeah, so it sucked that the building maintenance guys forgot to replace the fire extinguishers and caused the building to burn down, and it really sucks that that one disgruntled guy Joe decided to pour lighter fluid all over and drop a lit match, so now our company is out of business thanks to the fire.  But we don't want Joe to feel bad, so he still has a job."
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1915 on: May 15, 2009, 10:45:04 PM »
Wow ladies!  Lots of posts today!

eqnerd, lol @ your last post...that logic doesn't quite work the non-awesome situation!  It sucks when your hard work isn't acknowledged...but it's good to hear that the execs recognized what you did and thanked you.  :)

KF, yay for Steve being there soon!

Becca, curious to hear about the trip.

GGL, I can't believe it's only 15 days now...so exciting!

Sorry that I don't know all your ladies names yet...eventually I'll get it!

To anyone I missed, hope you have a lovely weekend!

I leve Wed. to visit DF....I'm ready to be on vacation now.  It's a short trip, but still worth it.  I will be back Monday.  Going tohappy hour tonight...it's a wedding shower for 1 of the girls I work with.  Going to have a margarita!  ;D

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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1916 on: May 17, 2009, 03:09:40 AM »
i'm in the midst of david's visit so i'll be keeping this post quick, but just wanted to drop by and say that there was no problem with immigration and we're having a wonderful time together!  and oh yeah, i'm ENGAGED!!  he proposed the second he saw me at the airport, in front of everyone else in the international terminal and everything.  it was magical and perfect! 

hope that everyone has safe travels/good luck with immigration--lots of travel coming up, it seems!




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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1917 on: May 17, 2009, 03:47:19 AM »
OMG! Wonderful news!!!! Congratulations! :D

Btw- don't forget to update your sig! lol
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1918 on: May 17, 2009, 08:58:35 AM »
omg lilybelle that is amazing...Congratulations ....that is so very romantic.....
I am sooo very happy for you.....woohoooooo


Becca sorry to hear that you had a bad trip to Fla.....

Carey you said you need a hug...I will give you a big hug

I did get my surprise on Friday night...When Jason and I got engaged in 2007 he used the phrase proposed that we get engaged...he never came right out and asked me to marry him...well the other night he took me out to dinner at a romantic italian restaraunt and when we got home he came in the living room ( I was sitting on the couch) and he kneeled in front of me and took my hand and he had some tears in his eyes and he asked me to marry him...of course I said yes...the wedding is only 3 months away lol...plus it is all I have ever wanted hehe...he then explained that he was going to do it at the restaraunt but there was no room to do it as the restaraunt was very small and cramped...so that was my surprise..it may seem strange to some but it made me smile...
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Re: I watch too many romantic movies!
« Reply #1919 on: May 17, 2009, 02:22:50 PM »
eqnerd, lol @ your last post...that logic doesn't quite work the non-awesome situation!

I know, but it should!  If you're willing to "award" excessively bad behavior (with a pink slip), you should also do the same for excessively good behavior.  I'll get over it, but in the meantime it does still rankle.  (My department has a history of being really bad about acknowledging above-and-beyond performance.)
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