Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear about Iain!

I agree with him, quit your job and go see him! LOL.
Horoscopes that suggest getting engaged? Are either of you Virgos? Tim and I are BOTH Virgos (our birthdays are 8 years and 362 days apart!), so if it says Virgos are getting engaged...

I need to share something adorable from today -
We were in a housewares store..something that starts with D to get some throw blankets to try to cover up the fact that his sofa has a huge rip in the arm, and we passed this pink lamp and I pointed out that I thought it was "pretty". He told me I wasn't allowed to put that in *our* bedroom...and we had a chat today about finding room for my stuff and about the importance of matching (pretty!) dishes....he still doesn't get the dishes thing, though. He said "but they're functional and you put food on them anyway to cover the design" *shakes head*. It's such a shame British couples don't do the whole bridal registry/shower thing.