Just so everyone knows, I did call the UKBA just to ask if I could have my passport back without cancelling anything....AND OF COURSE UKBA will NOT give you back your passport for medical reasons unless you want to cancel the whole process. And of course they will not even tell me if it's on it's way until I have gone past 14 weeks.
I actually broke down in tears on the phone with the lady, because she was like "Well if it's THAT important that you need to go to the doctor then surely you would be ok with cancelling it and we can send your passport back to you"
But I did not get angry with her or anything...I said "It IS that important or I would not be calling in the first place, and I know you cannot tell me anything about if it has been processed, but I do not want to cancel it and waste the money my husband paid as well at the last two months that I have been waiting, so I will just wait longer and hope that my ankle can heal itself. Thank you. Goodbye."
So yeah...just thought I would post that for everyone else's information that has read this post from me.
Husband is taking the day off from work tomorrow, to take me to his doctor to see if they will let me in without my passport and visa. I have met his doctor before when I was here over Christmas, because my husband and I both had a really bad sickness. He seems like a nice man, treated my husband and told me to do the same as what he told my husband to do.
Again....Thank you everyone for your advice. Now I am going to take a nap until my husband gets home.