Jemima,
Legal advice is ALWAYS warranted.
There is a difference between the EEA family permit and the UK unmarried partners' visa. The conditions for obtaining the latter are MUCH more strict. You are RIGHT that the EEA family permit is available only to married persons. However, I recommend that you review the IND instructions at
http://www.ind.homeoffice.gov.uk/default.asp?PageId=3994which is how the Home Office applies the Immigration Rules.
Also, see
http://www.stonewall-immigration.org.uk/Outside%20UK.htmwhich explains the visa application process from outside the UK as follows:
Partners of EEA nationals not already holding a UK residence permit, or partners of those in long-stay categories deemed as "leading to settlement" (work permit holders, ancestry visa holders) should complete form VAF1
Most categories are catered for under section 1 of this form, including a non-EEA dependant of an EEA national or the dependant of a person in a long-stay category. Q 5.1 asks how long you intend to stay in the UK - As long as my partner/to be decided would be appropriate responses. Q 5.3 asks why you are going to the UK - To stay with my partner.
Both forms require you to confirm whether or not you have ever been refused permission to enter the UK or refused a visa before (for the UK or any other country). If this is the case, you need to give details of the previous refusal(s).
What documents do I need to submit with the forms?
You need to submit similar documents as you would for making an application in the UK (apart from two passport-sized photographs and six months worth of bank statements and pay slips, if working). British Diplomatic Posts have the right, however, to request additional documents - e.g. birth certificates for applicant and sponsor, certified copy of sponsor's passport. It is always worth checking locally for such extra requirements.
Please see the section on Making an Application from within the UK and the Spring 2002 Newsletter for details of the evidence that you will need to submit and the way you should present the application. We have also listed the suggestions in easily printable form under Evidence .
Where do I send or take the application?
You can send the application by post to the British High Commission or Embassy. Alternatively, you can submit it in person. Where an application is made from abroad it is usual practice for the applicant to be interviewed. If your case is not straightforward, it is usually a good idea for the applicant’s partner to accompany the applicant to any interview in case the entry clearance officer wishes to ask any questions of the applicant’s partner.
How long will it take for my application to be considered?
This all depends on the particular Embassy or High Commission. It has been known for applications to be granted on the same day that they have been submitted. In some countries it can take considerably longer.
What happens if my application is refused?
If the application is refused you have the right to appeal against the decision. You have to lodge the appeal forms with the Embassy or High Commission within 3 months of the decision. The appeal will be heard in the UK at an immigration court (see section on making an application in the UK), but there is likely to be considerable delay. See Refusals & Appeals.
If you are not satisfied with the level of service provided by the UK visas office at an Embassy or High Commission overseas you can make a complaint to the Visa Correspondence Section of UKvisas . "UKvisas" is a joint Home Office and Foreign & Commonwealth Office Unit which runs the UK's visa service through British diplomatic posts overseas. (Previously called the Joint Entry Clearance Unit).
What happens if the application is granted?
An entry clearance certificate (visa) will be placed in your passport which will give you permission (leave), from that date, to enter the UK as an unmarried partner. On arrival, leave to enter will only be refused if there is evidence that you obtained the visa by deception or if there has been a material change in circumstances (e.g. you have split up since getting the visa!).
1. If the entry clearance is endorsed "accompanying/to join partner (partners surname and first initial)", you will be given leave to enter for 2 years and this will be good for multiple entry. You will be able to apply for permanent residence after completing 2 years living in the UK as an unmarried partner. If your first entry is likely to be delayed for any reason, it is possible, at the time of issue, to request that the start date on the visa be deferred for up to 3 months. This may be important as a delayed entry might otherwise mean having to make an application for an extension to complete the 2 years living in the UK. This would not be a problem, just an inconvenience.
2. If your partner is an EU citizen, it may be necessary to extend for a further 2 years - making 4 years in all, before being eligible for permanent residency.
3. If you have lived together with your partner for 4 years outside the UK, have applied for and been granted "settlement entry clearance", this will be endorsed "settlement/to join partner (partners surname and first initial)". In such a case you will be given indefinite leave to enter (identical to indefinite leave to remain as soon as you pass through immigration).
See "Immigration Directorates' Instructions" Chapter 8 Section 7, paragraphs 2.5 and 2.6