Hi Missy,
This appt will only be for Hubby. Both of my children were born here. We have an appt with the Embassy in August to get my youngest his American passport.
I didn't think they needed to be present, but you definitely want to have all of the information you can gather, just in case.
And, yes I don't fancy my children coming to the Embassy, to me that would be the day from hell. A 3yr old running around w/ nothing to do, and my 3 month old, forget it. Hey you never know, maybe they would just give us a visa to get us out of there. HMMMM!!
MelanieB