If I wear loose tops I still look like I have big boobs, I just look like I am wearing a tent as well! If anything, I think it looks less professional than a top which outlines my shape.
Vicky
That's the difference between the British attitude and the American attitude.
In America, if you wear a top that outlines your shape, and you have big boobs, people assume that you are using your sexuality to get what you want and you don't have any brains or talent. If you wear a loose top, you might look fat, but people will assume that you are more intelligent. I realise that if your boobs are large enough, it's impossible to completely to hide them - the idea is that at least you are trying to hide them.
The majority of the tops that I've purchased in the UK have elastane/spandex in them and fit tightly over my boobs (big-boobed gal here, as well.) Not because I specifically chose them, but because that is what is available. And they are from shops like Principles and Next, not exactly known for selling sexy attire. They are considered to be boring, everyday clothing.
If I wore these tops in the US, I would get looks and hear whispers behing my back.
Recently, when I was in the US, my sister and I were talking about bras and she said that the purpose of a bra is to hold your boobs in and keep them from jiggling. Very different from the attitude that I've encountered in the UK, which is that the purpose of a bra is to show off your upper body by lifting the girls up and out.