expat - I meant the word 'entitled' as meaning 'I am eligible to receive' - not some sort of loaded terminology.
I see the point in the grant and all, I was just having a moan that I won't be seeing a penny! It's not means-tested, so that's why I was a little annoyed at being ineligible solely based on immigration status. If it were means-tested, then obviously I could understand why I don't meet eligibility and why they only want to give it to those who truly need it. As it stands, being exempted from something that's NOT means-based does aggravate me. It's too bad the grant is for women-only based on the mother. If it were based on the child, then my husband could apply!
Oh well. Wasn't really meaning to start a debate - hope the info is useful to mums-to-be with ILR/British citizenship on this board!