Good avice from Jen there.
nystacey, you seem really excited (which is great!) but a bit all over the place at the moment. Maybe it's worth taking a deep breath and chilling for a day or so? I know that can be really hard, but sometimes it's worth just taking a step back endlessley looking at gumtree and rightmove can make everything just all swim together, or at least it does for me!
What I would do if I were you, is take a break! Then sit down and make a list of the top things that you want in a place to live, in vague priority order, so mine go like this :
Less than £230 per week rent
Less than 20 minutes commute to Paddington station.
Less than 30 minutes commute to Victoria/East Croydon/Clapham Junction/London Bridge
Less than 30 minute commute to oxford circus (I go shopping/meet friends a lot!)
Close proximity to some local shops (corner shop, pub, garage, market etc)
Double room
Good storage
Nice flatmates
En-suite
Outside space
So assume you work in canary wharf, work out your maximum budget and then what's important to you.
Do you want street markets and busy weekends, character homes, modern flats, river views etc?
Write your list out, then use tfl journey planner to what areas fit into your ideal commute, then use
www.londontown.com to work out what those areas are like, and if they fit into what your ideal neighbourhood would be like.
You need to get some focus or it becomes quite overwhelming, it's a big city and like NYC, has many options and diverse neighbourhoods
Someone might love one area and hate another, it's all subjective, but if you work out what YOU like, you'll have a better chance at finding an area right for you.
One thing I'd add, is you should have a think about your budget and make sure you're being realistic about what you can afford, I see people do it all the time, they can afford the rent but not the council tax etc, so maybe it's worthing doing the following :
you've been job hunting, so you must know what salary bracket you'll fit into. Take the salary and put it into here :
http://www.thesalarycalculator.co.uk/This will work out your take home salary.
Then consider :
http://www.tfl.gov.uk/tickets/faresandtickets/seasontickets/4805.aspxThis will be the prices of your travel, so that flat in zone 4 might look great, but might look less attractive when you a add £141 travel card.
Also look at something like this :
http://www.towerhamlets.gov.uk/data/your-council/data/counciltax/data/bands.cfmWhich is council tax prices for my area.
That may add an additional £100-£200 to your rent per month (you'll get an 25% reduction for living alone)
Then consider your food bills, you can get an idea from here :
http://www.sainsburys.com/groceries/index.jsp?bmUID=1232968027157do an example monthly food shop and see how much you're spending.
Then remember gas/electricity/mobile phone etc.
But generally, if you spend a few hours doing that, you'll have a much more focussed, realistic idea of what lifestyle you'll have and what you can afford. It wont be fun, probably quite boring, but may be essential research before you consider moving.
Best of luck! x