I'm sorry, maybe it is selfish of me... but I don't want to put myself in that position. The bottom of her email says, "Note to recipient:
The information in this internet e-mail and any attachments is confidential and may be privileged. It is intended solely for the addressee. If you are not the intended recipient, any disclosure, printing, copying, distribution, or action regarding the e-mail is prohibited and may be unlawful. If you are not the intended recipient, please notify the sender."
I'm sure if you e-mail her asking about applying for a fiance visa you'll receive the same email I did. I feel bad for saying this but this whole process (as many of you know) has been incredibly stressful for me. I find a lot of the process to be confusing and my poor fiance is working his butt off in Scotland to make everything he needs to do happen and we both feel so over whelmed.
I'm going to just have to assume what the website says to be true... that I shouldn't be denied so long as I can prove my divorce is well underway. I know Vicky said one thing and kitsonk said the opposite, but at this point I'm not sure what other choice I have but to just move along as planned. The divorce decree, at the very latest, could come mid may.. and we absolutely cannot wait until then to apply. I'm so stressed out and panicked about the whole thing I've made myself sick. I should probably take your advice historyenne and calm down.
p.s. thank you everyone for your advice and words. I do appreciate them very much.