How shocking. My condolences, PB. Yet another reminder - carpe diem! Do it now.
Definitely! The other thing that really upsets me about news like that - is when I hear that young people (and often young men)
delay seeking medical treatment, when they are ill.
I am always reminded of a friend of mine back in Kansas City. One of her brothers was a young man, young family - wife and couple of kids, who had a bad cold & just kept working & working & working (I think he did some kind of construction work) - you know the "don't need to see the doctor - it'll be fine - I'm a real man's man, I'll just keep going to work, no worries" - all that jazz. Collapsed & dropped dead with pneumonia, didn't get to the hospital until it was too late - leaving his young wife a widow, his children fatherless, his entire family bereaved.
Not saying that PB's friend was like that, but it just makes me upset when I hear that someone's SO is really ill & refusing to go to the doctor - because I will always remember just how sad that was for my friend's family.
