Thought I'd give a quick update, but seems many of peoples post here have gone missing (including my original starter post) so reading the thread will likely leave most confused.
At any rate, we're heading to the States in January for 2 weeks (my first trip back in years) and upon our return will be looking to move to the UK for a year to see if we like it. Our economic situation has changed and so has our criteria a bit and with the lower UK home prices it seems to have opened up some option, judging by the listings I see on Rightmove.
From our research, we're thinking perhaps somewhere in South Gloucestershire, just North of Bristol or perhaps around Bath might suit us. That area has relatively low unemployment, I've see scores of detached homes in our price range, the weather is supposed to be some of the better in the UK in that area (sunnier than most parts) and while Bristol has some crime issues, the surrounding towns in commuting distance seem to be low on crime. Also, Thornbury was rated as one of the best places in the UK to raise kids (we have a 2 year old.) Good access to some rural areas and nature, etc.
Having said all that, I've never actually been there so who knows, but that's why we'll keep our current abode while we rent in England for a year and if it doesn't work out then we're just out lots of money with another interesting story to tell.
But you only live once and we want to find out for sure one way or another if the UK is a better fit than Germany before the little one starts school and we put down roots until she (and another planned one) finish high school.
Anyway, any thoughts on Bristol/Bath and the surrounding region? Is what I've read all a load of crappola or is it pretty decent place to live? Norwich is still in the running but I don't think we'd head too far North for a variety of reasons.