i just came back from passing my practical test. I am beyond excited. I have taken lessons for a year and did fail my first practical in September. For anyone that is taking lessons now, the payoff will be good. Keep trying, dont give up. Dont let anyone bully you whether it is your instructor or your husband. you have to do what is right for you. I do recommend that you find a good and patient instructor and one that will keep you on a schedule. If you do have a family member that is patient and will work with you on practice driving, do so. I had only wished that i had a better support system instead of doing it all on my own. I was upset and felt down and my ego was deflated in failing a test. Keep going and take the advice of your instructor. They know what they are doing and are familar with the high standards of driving that is required here. I have a brand new skill, driving a manual car. I never in a million years thought that would happen! I am rooting for everyone that is in the driving process!!!