I had forgotten about this thread!
3)Don't run the kettle after you make your drinks on the off chance that someone will need tea soon. FFS, it doesn't take that long to boil it from cold.
I know quite a few people that do this and I've never understood it. I guess that 20 seconds they save themselves in time is more valuable than you eating decent food
My SIL's are irritating me a bit at the moment. SIL#1 (DH's older sister) is one that we don't see or talk to very much, usually just on holidays. We've had a LOT going on with DD over the course of the last year, which MIL and FIL are totally in the loop on, but SIL isn't too interested. She doesn't really keep up on things going on with us, which is fair enough. She doesn't have kids, has her own life, etc and I totally get that. However, she decided about three or so months ago to make some pretty nasty judgements about us (me in particular) and talking out her ars* about things she didn't have a clue about. Her biggest gripe was that DD was almost 4 and I was still staying at home and hadn't gotten a job. DD's problems were irrelevant, as was that fact that DS is still a baby, and it was a decision DH and I made together, and that decision had eff all to do with her, she knew best and really laid into DH on the phone that there was no excuse for my laziness. I got really fed up, and let her have it. I did get a very brief apology from her, but didn't hear from her afterwards. Fast forward to DD's 4th birthday and DH's b-day. (their days are 3 days apart). No card or anything from SIL. Not even a text, phone call or email. DH's mom had called DH to make sure DD's present from them had arrived, asked what DD had gotten from various people, and when she found out SIL hadn't even called DD to say happy birthday, she was pretty ticked. So, over 6 weeks letter, SIL sent up a card and present. (Not even a note for DH, though, mind you). So, because she was pissed at me, she had apparently decided to ignore her niece
SIL#2 (DH's little sister) is leaving at the start of September for two years of travelling around the world with her boyfriend. She's currently staying in Sheffield with the BF, and is only planning to return to Ireland briefly sometime in August to say her goodbyes. The thing is, she won't set a date, and I REALLY don't want to miss the UKY meetup! I'm just afraid that she'll let everyone know at the last minute (something all his sisters are pretty bad about) and it will end up being the one weekend I don't want it to be. It's not that big of a deal on it's own, it's just that his sisters always expect to be catered to and will b*tch up a storm if that doesn't happen, but we don't get the same consideration. We can't win for losing. When we were planning DS's christening, the church only did them at two times, Wednesdays at 4 or Saturdays at 7. Wed at 4 was more convenient for DH and I since DD goes to bed around 7, but we figured that since his family would be coming from Dublin we'd pick the Saturday so nobody would have to worry about taking time off work. Well, I was shocked at the amount of trash-talking that went on between his sisters because the time of day wasn't convenient for them, and we were sooooooo rude and ignorant for not thinking about their needs. I suppose it would have taken to much common sense for them to pick up the phone and ask why it was at 7 pm. (I have to say, though, that MIL has backed me up 100% when these things come up. She even told all 3 SIL's that her grandson's day was not to be ruined, and that if they were going to act like kids they could stay home.)
Another issue is that they are constantly nagging us about not coming down to Dublin often enough. Um, we're the only ones with kids, and the only ones without a car. Not only do they RARELY make the trip up to see us, they won't even offer to pick us up from the bus station when we do go to Dublin. So a trip there consists of a 4 hour bus ride, walking from the bus station to the train station to get the DART (with two kids, car seat, stroller, luggage and a partridge in a pear tree), getting off the DART and then having to get another bus. All told, it's usually an almost 6 hour journey. That's something we should be doing every other month apparently.