I know that I have nothing on some of you but my soon-to-be MIL drives me nuts. Or generally spending time with the ILs becomes a mission.
BF and I are moving in together next weekend. We haven't been able to pack and prep until about a week ago. Well because BF is giving up his place (and his parents treated it like a holiday home), they decided to come stay all last week, without asking. How are we to pack with them around (short answer, we weren't able)? Then SIL and family decided to pop down for the weekend out of the blue. 6 people total in addition to us.
BF had a convo with his mother -- who is a packrat -- about how we have loads of duplicates and would be getting rid of things (to a charity shop, not throwing in the bin). During her last visit she bought BF some £5 tumblers because he has a tendancy to break glasses -- he didn't ask her to buy them and they have never been used since. So at the mention of us getting rid of some things, she started obsessing about the tumblers -- were we going to bin those, surely we needed glasses for orange juice in the morning, etc. BF said that she could take them if she wanted, if she would use them. She had a tantrum, near tears. OVER THE FLIPPLING TUMBLERS.
On Saturday, when we were supposed to be packing, we had to go out for the nice family day -- since 6 of them came down for a visit (that they didn't ask us to do). These people plan nothing, everything takes an hour later than you think, and then everyone gets angry because there is no plan. BF's flat is currently a 3 minute walk from mine. They say they are outside and walking to mine and they arrive 20 minutes later. We took a boat ride on the Thames which was supposed to just be the regular public transportation, and actually it was an almost 2 hour tour. We went all the way to Greenwich to the Observatory, but just for SIL to go to the gift shop. And on and on.