So, right now I am sitting here, worrying about telling my inlaws that the latch to the dryer is broken. I have a load in the washer, but the minute I take it out, my MIL is going to try to put a load in. It's sort of like when a dog pees on a tree where another dog goes I think. My BIL isn't home. My husband isn't home. I don't want to have it implied that I am a moron who can't operate appliances (as has been implied in the past).
I know I can buy a new latch, but it will take days to get here I imagine. My MIL is totally adverse to hanging crap up, and I can just imagine the whinging.
I already am upset with them from last night with them bleating on about immigration. They think that I should have just been able to come into the UK and apply for citizenship. My father in law knows absolutely nothing about immigration except for what he reads in The Daily Mail. When I pointed out that it's not that easy, he asked me why there are so many immigrants. Apparently, some friend of a friend brought his American wife over around the time we got married and she had citizenship immediately. Of course, we know there's more to the story than that because it didn't work that way in the early naughties. Yet, despite him not knowing anything except that she might have had student visas, we were obviously stupid and misinformed (even though our immigration adviser was someone who my MIL works for), I shouldn't have had to apply for my ILR (try explaining ILR to people who think that you are entitled to citizenship immediately), and that my brother in law will "do it right the first time" when he brings his non-EEA national fiancee and her child here.
Of course, my brother in law seems to think that the current rules are a part of the new legislation and no amount of explaining will erase that misconception. If it were that hard, there wouldn't be so many foreigners!